Sunday, 15 June 2025

Pride Month - June 2025. A reflection.

The Road to Equality: A Short Timeline of Same-Sex Marriage in England

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It’s been a journey paved with both legal change and social courage. Here’s a brief look at how same-sex unions became part of our registry records:

💖2004: The Civil Partnership Act is passed, offering same-sex couples legal recognition — with rights similar to marriage, but without the name.

💛2005: The first civil partnerships take place. 

💚2013: The Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Act is passed in England and Wales, allowing same-sex couples to legally marry.

💙2014: The first same-sex marriages take place.

💜2019: Civil partnerships are extended to opposite-sex couples, making love and legal commitment inclusive in every direction.

Each date represents not just policy, but people — couples who had waited, hoped, and in some cases, fought for the right to simply stand before their loved ones and say: “This is the person I choose.”




🏳️‍🌈 What Pride Means from This Side of the Desk

For me, Pride is more than a flag or a parade. It’s the steady turning of the tide:

one ceremony, one kiss at a time

It’s hearing a grandmother say, “I never thought I’d see the day” — and realising that this day, today, is exactly what progress looks like.

It’s knowing that every signature I witness, every ring exchanged, every nervous laugh, is a small, sacred part of something bigger. A reminder that love, in its truest form, doesn’t ask permission.

✍️ Looking Back, Looking Forward

As we celebrate Pride this June, I remember the sheer courage of couples who dared to love openly and for those that never got the chance to express their love in this way.

To anyone reading this — whether you’re planning your wedding, remembering your civil partnership, or simply reflecting on how far we’ve come — thank you. You’re part of a story that continues to grow more inclusive, more joyful, and more real every day.

And to my fellow registrars: keep the tissues handy. Love is a beautiful thing to witness.


With pride and a very full heart

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